“Fake it Till You Make It” vs. Living Abundance Through Alignment

Cast Off the Facade: A Stoic Invitation to Bloom in Authenticity

Elumar De Sa
3 min readJan 16, 2024
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Do you ever sense that your real self is trapped behind a fake smile, craving to break free?

That image we craft so carefully — aimed at fitting in or scaling the heights of success with every staged photo. Living as someone else can feel like squeezing into shoes far too small, suffocating, even if each step teaches us about other lives.

Embrace Your Authentic Self

Yet consider this: casting off that disguise and stepping into the daylight; soaking up rays as your genuine self shines. Cast aside those polished posts and phony grins.

Stoicism: The Path to True Wealth

Stoicism speaks softly but carries profound truths, much like a breeze through arid lands: True wealth never sprouts from fakery; it flourishes through being real.

Reject “Fake it Till You Make it”

Envision “fake it till you make it” as tossing lit torches — a dazzling show but doomed to end badly. In contrast, Stoicism carves out a fresh trail marked by acceptance of self, kindness within, and clear intent. It celebrates oddities and imperfections because therein lies the fertile ground where our unique gifts grow.

My Journey of Self-Discovery

This challenge isn’t foreign to me; I’ve raced after an illusion of flawlessness while hidden beneath masks made for others’ eyes. But these facades grew heavy — the stress of keeping up appearances nearly crushed my dreams alive.

Unlocking the Power of Stoicism

Discovering Stoicism was akin to uncovering a lush haven amid false fronts. Through practices such as quiet reflection, I silenced harsh internal talk and fed my true nature’s budding promise.

Embrace Your Desires

Using visualization techniques — I painted my life’s desires in vivid hues — and Stoic wisdom provided rich earth for growing strong roots (and helped me stand proud against doubts).

Embrace Your Weaknesses

Here’s something personal: once caught in trying too hard to wow others led only to exhaustion and feeling adrift — I learned peace comes when embracing weaknesses alongside strengths — an investment beyond compare.

Cultivate an Authentic Abundance Mindset

Here is a hard truth: make-believe may yield brief praise; yet, like castles made of sand, one real-life tide washes all away. Fostering an abundance mindset based on who you truly are sows seeds for personal growth — your unique garden will thrive.

So unmask, friend. Let your own garden bloom, vibrant and unique, bathed in the sunlight of your true self. Cast aside costumes that aren’t yours; shine brightly in your own light. Such richness grows only from the soil of self-truth.

A Bold Uprising

Consider this not just as an invite but a bold uprising. Together, let’s drop our disguises, welcome the complex allure found in being open to risks, and tend to true wealth’s roots.

Reveal Your Collective Essence

In unison, we shall reveal ourselves — with Stoicism’s wisdom plus meditative insight and vivid imagery as our beacons — and witness the blossoming splendor of our collective essence.

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Elumar De Sa
Elumar De Sa

Written by Elumar De Sa

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