Fascinating read! The notions of self-love and independence resonate deeply. They bring to mind Stoicism, with its focus on the power found within for inner fulfillment. Like your friend, Stoics seek contentment from internal sources—not from others' approval. Yet, as much as I concur with your article's essence, a question lingers: Might there be room for balance? Beyond teaching self-reliance, Stoicism also recognizes community's worth and our shared bonds. Perhaps deepening our love for ourselves might bolster the ways we engage with—and uplift—those around us? Motivated by these thoughts, I aim to delve into them through a Stoic lens in my next write-up. Thank you for sharing this insightful article with us; it's greatly appreciated!